God is Love
The Bible tells us that God is love. John emphasizes just how important this aspect of God’s nature is in 1 John 4. He says that if we don’t love then we don’t actually know God. God is so defined as being love that if we have a relationship with Him, we will love as well. It is a wonderful idea to contemplate.
It is not that God shows love or God is able to love, but He is love. Love is central to God’s identity. What’s more, there are a number of Greek words that John could have used to say love in this context. He chose agapos. It is a word that means an unconditional, self-less love. It is the love of a parent for a child or a husband for his wife. God is also limitless and eternal so His undeserved love is also boundless and never-ending.
This understanding of God’s nature can help us get to know Him better. If Christianity is a relationship, not a religion, the more we know about the One we love the better. We can test our thinking about God and how He relates to us and see if it is accurate. We can do this by looking at how God defines love in the Bible. Since God is love, we can then see what God says about Himself through those verses.
God Defines Love in the Bible
Consider 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, a portion of the love chapter of the Bible:
Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails 1 Corinthians 13
We often apply these verses as directions to our lives. This is appropriate as they are wonderful expressions of how we should live as followers of Christ. This section hangs framed on the wall in our house for this reason. But we shouldn’t miss the fact we only know how to love because He loved us. Thus since God is love, Paul’s description of what love is, at heart, first describes the very essence of God.
God is love, therefore, He is kind, patient and does not envy. He is therefore not prideful and rude. God is not easily provoked. In reading the verses, do we view God in these ways?
The Attributes of God
Love is patient. God is patient.
Do we understand how patient God is with the world and His people? The world mocks Him and defies Him while He patiently awaits just one more lost sheep coming back into the fold. Do we have a false view of God as tapping His foot waiting for us to finally get it right? That is not the real God as He is love. He is infinitely patient with us.
Love is Kind. God is kind.
I love this one. I grew up with unkind people and expected others to be the same. The world is very cruel at times. God is simply not like that. Jesus treated even the worst of sinners gently and with respect. God is so good to us! He is kind to us like a Father to little children. He is the perfect Shepherd!
Love does not envy. God does not envy.
God wants the best for us, even when we don’t deserve it. Jesus gave up everything for us to share in His inheritance. God’s desire is for us to have an abundant life, not for us to suffer for every little mistake we make. Do we have a false view of God as vindictive and waiting to punish us when we mess up? That is not God as He is love. He celebrates with us when we are blessed. It is He who is doing the blessing, after all.
Read through the description of love in the verses and just drink it in. God is all of the attributes set out in the verses.
How did we do? Are we challenged by any of the descriptions of God?
If so, read the verses again and again. Meditate upon them. Pray and ask God to teach us more about Himself. He is patient with our doubt or confusion. He believes in us and never fails. It says so right there in the Bible!
God never fails! He won’t fail one of His Children when we are trying to know Him better.